Lynn says I'm being difficult.
The neighbor behind us keeps playing loud music. For several hours a day / night, including after 11pm and through 2am.
"But you love music."
Yes, I do, but it's far too loud when I can hear it at the far end of the apartment.
"But you love loud music."
Yes, I do, but I love balanced music where the bass is not overpowering everything. And when I'm entering a residential area I turn the music down, even Miss Kid has noticed this.
He says I'm being silly to complain about it because if they receive 3 noise violations from the office then they get an eviction notice on the 4th complaint. He's not home during the day so it doesn't bother him. He sleeps right through it at night so it doesn't bother him. But I'm home and I often can't sleep at night.
Part of why I'm not sleeping is because of pain / migraines which means less sleep which then cycles to not being able to deal with the pain or migraines. There's a pattern here, I just know it. (/sarcasm)
And dealing with thumping bass that has no predictable beat and no words at all that I can hear all day and half the night .. just no. I can't deal. And he doesn't want to be the reason they get evicted.
I don't know how to get him to understand that it's not us being unreasonable, it's the neighbor refusing to be considerate of others.